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The best books of 2023

This list is part of the best books of 2023.

We've asked 1,641 authors and super readers for their 3 favorite reads of the year.

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My favorite read in 2023…

Book cover of We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves

Devorah Blachor Why did I love this book?

"All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." So goes the great Anna Karenina quote by Tolstoy, and what lies at the center of the Cooke family unhappiness is as singular and surprising as it gets.

Narrator Rosemary Cooke reveals her extraordinary family secret in flashbacks interwoven with the present-day narrative. What elevated this book for me was the deep dive into the emotional life of Rosemary and her brother Lowell as they discover and then navigate the secret that destroyed their family.

The secret - which is the premise for this novel - is genius, but I won’t reveal it here as the shock is part of what makes the book stand out. Riveting, tragic, and wise - this is one of Karen Joy Fowler's best novels.

By Karen Joy Fowler,

Why should I read it?

6 authors picked We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

The New York Times bestselling author of The Jane Austen Book Club introduces a middle-class American family that is ordinary in every way but one in this novel that won the PEN/Faulkner Award and was a finalist for the Man Booker Prize.
 
Meet the Cooke family: Mother and Dad, brother Lowell, sister Fern, and Rosemary, who begins her story in the middle. She has her reasons. “I was raised with a chimpanzee,” she explains. “I tell you Fern was a chimp and already you aren’t thinking of her as my sister. But until Fern’s expulsion...she was my twin, my funhouse…


My 2nd favorite read in 2023…

Book cover of Dunbar

Devorah Blachor Why did I love this book?

A creative and contemporary reimagining of King Lear, St Aubyn is as funny, biting, and devastating here as in his Patrick Melrose trilogy.

Even though we all know the plot, the story of media mogul Henry Dunbar is darkly entertaining and, at times, reads like a thriller as he navigates the web woven by his two corrupt daughters.

This novel is part of the Hogarth Shakespeare series, which enlisted well-known authors to retell the works of Shakespeare. Dunbar made me want to read them all.

By Edward St. Aubyn,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Dunbar as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

From the author of the Patrick Melrose novels, now a major Sky Atlantic television series starring Benedict Cumberbatch

Henry Dunbar, the once all-powerful head of a global media corporation, is not having a good day. In his dotage he handed over care of the corporation to his two eldest daughters, Abby and Megan. But relations quickly soured, leaving him to doubt the wisdom of past decisions.

Now imprisoned in a care home in the Lake District with only a demented alcoholic comedian as company, Dunbar starts planning his escape. As he flees into the hills, his family is hot on…


My 3rd favorite read in 2023…

Book cover of All About Love: New Visions

Devorah Blachor Why did I love this book?

I’ve been researching the history of marriage in recent years for a work of nonfiction and read this book as part of the project.

People don’t talk enough about how our patriarchal systems function to separate people from each other, how they establish human relationships based on power and dominance, and how they therefore prohibit a genuine feeling of love from ever emerging and flourishing.

It’s no accident that so many people in the US promote fierce individualism rather than fostering a feeling of community. We are a communal species and thrive when we love one another. I’m grateful that bell hooks took on this subject with wisdom, insight, and hope.

By Bell Hooks,

Why should I read it?

5 authors picked All About Love as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

"The word "love" is most often defined as a noun, yet...we would all love better if we used it as a verb," writes bell hooks as she comes out fighting and on fire in All About Love. Here, at her most provocative and intensely personal, the renowned scholar, cultural critic, and feminist skewers our view of love as romance. In its place she offers a proactive new ethic for a people and a society bereft with lovelessness. As bell hooks uses her incisive mind and razor-sharp pen to explore the question "What is love?" her answers strike at both the…


Plus, check out my book…

The Feminist's Guide to Raising a Little Princess: How to Raise a Girl Who's Authentic, Joyful, and Fearless--Even If She Refuses to Wear Anything but a Pink Tutu

By Devorah Blachor,

Book cover of The Feminist's Guide to Raising a Little Princess: How to Raise a Girl Who's Authentic, Joyful, and Fearless--Even If She Refuses to Wear Anything but a Pink Tutu

What is my book about?

What happens when a three-year-old becomes consumed with pink, princesses, and all things girly? Has she already learned that girls are judged by their appearance, that the ideal female should be passive, and that girls require a man to come along and save them? 

The Feminists Guide to Raising a Little Princess is an exploration into the phenomenon of princess obsession among toddlers. After my daughter fell down this Disney rabbit hole, I set out to find out the consequences for her and other girls who are in the same fuchsia-colored, sparkly boat.

My research surprised, reassured and entertained me, and I share it all, along with my story, in my book.