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The best books of 2023

This list is part of the best books of 2023.

We've asked 1,641 authors and super readers for their 3 favorite reads of the year.

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My favorite read in 2023…

Book cover of Writers & Lovers

Vanessa McGrady Why did I love this book?

I tore through this book in a couple of days after it was recommended by another writer friend, Angie McCullogh.

Never before have I read such a mirror reflection of this Venn diagram of my own experiences in writing, loving, and waitressing. Lili King does a beautiful job of bringing us straight into the abyss of the main character’s brain, a wildly mournful, imperfect, and funny place. So much humor and heart!

In a way I wish I could wipe it from my mind so that I could have the juicy joy of discovering it all again.

I made bad choices in love. I struggled (and still struggle) to finish writing projects. I know the acute ache of waiting for the work meal instead of spending my last couple bucks on food. Even though King’s book is fiction, I feel like I know this person and her grief so well it could be a memoir and I would gulp every word as truth. 

By Lily King,

Why should I read it?

9 authors picked Writers & Lovers as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

#ReadWithJenna Book Club Pick as Featured on Today
Emma Roberts Belletrist Book Club Pick
A New York Times Book Review’s Group Text Selection

"I loved this book not just from the first chapter or the first page but from the first paragraph... The voice is just so honest and riveting and insightful about creativity and life." —Curtis Sittenfeld 

An extraordinary new novel of art, love, and ambition from Lily King, the New York Times bestselling author of Euphoria

Following the breakout success of her critically acclaimed and award-winning novel Euphoria, Lily King returns with another instant New York Times bestseller:…


My 2nd favorite read in 2023…

Book cover of Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art

Vanessa McGrady Why did I love this book?

I loved Breath because it was such a good primer on something we do all day and night, but don’t give much thought to: Breathing. And guess what? There is a right way and a wrong way!

Nestor has a wonderful storytelling talent, weaving in his own narrative with one that goes back all the way to our cave-dwelling ancestors—and why they never needed braces. 

By James Nestor,

Why should I read it?

5 authors picked Breath as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

THE PHENOMENAL INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER - OVER A MILLION COPIES SOLD WORLDWIDE

SHORTLISTED FOR THE ROYAL SOCIETY BOOK PRIZE

'Who would have thought something as simple as changing the way we breathe could be so revolutionary for our health, from snoring to allergies to immunity? A fascinating book, full of dazzling revelations' Dr Rangan Chatterjee

There is nothing more essential to our health and wellbeing than breathing: take air in, let it out, repeat 25,000 times a day. Yet, as a species, humans have lost the ability to breathe correctly, with grave consequences. In Breath, journalist James Nestor travels the world…


My 3rd favorite read in 2023…

Book cover of How to Write an Autobiographical Novel: Essays

Vanessa McGrady Why did I love this book?

First, Chee is a beautiful writer. He’s so deft and brings you right in. But I also loved this book because it was inspirational to me. He made an essay collection seem simple and accessible in a way it hadn’t before. I’m working on one now!

By Alexander Chee,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked How to Write an Autobiographical Novel as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Shortlisted for the PEN/Diamonstein-Spielvogel Award for the Art of the Essay

Named a Best Book of 2018 by TIME, Washington Post, Entertainment Weekly, Wired, Esquire, Buzzfeed, Paste, Bitch, Bustle, The Chicago Review of Books and iBooks

As a novelist, Alexander Chee has been described as 'masterful' by Roxane Gay, 'incendiary' by the New York Times, and 'brilliant' by the Washington Post. With How to Write an Autobiographical Novel, his first collection of nonfiction, he secures his place as one of the finest essayists of his generation.

How to Write an Autobiographical Novel is the author's exploration of the entangling of…


Plus, check out my book…

Rock Needs River: A Memoir About a Very Open Adoption

By Vanessa McGrady,

Book cover of Rock Needs River: A Memoir About a Very Open Adoption

What is my book about?

From a story first told in the popular New York Times parenting blog comes a funny, touching memoir about a mother who welcomes more than a new daughter into her home.

After two years of waiting to adopt—slogging through paperwork and bouncing between hope and despair—a miracle finally happened for Vanessa McGrady. Her sweet baby, Grace, was a dream come true. Then Vanessa made a highly uncommon gesture: when Grace’s biological parents became homeless, Vanessa invited them to stay.

Without a blueprint for navigating the practical basics of an open adoption or any discussion of expectations or boundaries, the unusual living arrangement became a bottomless well of conflicting emotions and increasingly difficult decisions complicated by missed opportunities, regret, social chaos, and broken hearts.